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The Ultimate Slang Term Glossary for Parents

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Slang Terms

Ohio

/#ohio

A slang meme used to describe something strange, chaotic, or bizarre, often suggesting that these odd occurrences are typical for Ohio.

Use Case

Ohio has become a meme associated with surreal or absurd happenings, where people joke that certain strange events or behaviors are what one might expect from Ohio. It's typically meant to be humorous and over-the-top.

Examples

  • That weird TikTok? Ohio energy.
  • This glitch is straight out of Ohio.
  • Only in Ohio would this happen.
  • His outfit? Very Ohio.
  • The party was wild, it felt like Ohio.

How to Approach

Discussing the "Ohio" meme is a way to bond over internet humor and explore how teens view certain trends or locations in a playful light. You can ask them what they find funny and talk about how certain places or things become meme-worthy.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think makes something 'Ohio'?
  • How do places like Ohio get caught up in meme culture?
  • What's the weirdest thing you've seen that reminds you of Ohio memes?
  • Why do you think memes like this become so popular?
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Finna

/#finna

A colloquial contraction of "fixing to," meaning "about to" or "going to." It's commonly used in informal speech.

Use Case

Finna is casual slang for planning to do something soon. It's often used in place of "going to" in everyday conversations.

Examples

  • I'm finna go to the mall later.
  • We're finna win this game.
  • I'm finna grab some food after school.
  • They're finna throw the biggest party of the year.
  • I'm finna finish my homework soon.

How to Approach

This term can be used to explore how language evolves and why certain phrases gain popularity. You can talk about how slang reflects culture and self-expression.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you're finna do today?
  • Do you think slang like 'finna' changes how we talk to each other?
  • How do you feel about using slang in formal versus casual settings?
  • Why do you think people love to play with language through slang?
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Dayger

/#dayger

A party held during the day, often outdoors, combining the words "day" and "rager."

Use Case

Dayger is a term used to describe a daytime party that's usually loud, energetic, and similar to a nighttime rager. It's often associated with college parties or outdoor gatherings.

Examples

  • We're hitting up a dayger this weekend.
  • The dayger at the park was so fun.
  • He's hosting a dayger for his birthday.
  • I love daygers, the vibe is always more relaxed than night parties.
  • The music was so loud at the dayger, it felt like a night party.

How to Approach

This term can lead to discussions about parties, peer pressure, and how your child navigates social events. It's a good time to discuss safety, responsibility, and setting boundaries.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you like about daygers compared to night parties?
  • How do you stay safe and responsible at large gatherings like daygers?
  • What's your ideal way to enjoy a party without feeling overwhelmed?
  • How do you handle it if a dayger gets too wild for your comfort?
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Zoom

/#zoom

While "Zoom" originally refers to the video conferencing app, it's also slang for staying focused, productive, and on top of things. When someone says they're "on their zoom," it means they're handling their responsibilities efficiently and staying in control. It can also refer to moving quickly through tasks or staying organized and proactive.

Use Case

Zoom is used to describe a state of focus, where someone is actively handling their responsibilities and keeping up with work, school, or life in general. It implies a sense of efficiency and getting things done without lagging behind.

Examples

  • I've got so much to do, but I'm on my zoom today.
  • He's been on his zoom lately, getting all his assignments done.
  • I need to stay on my zoom to finish this project on time.
  • She's always on her zoom, managing everything without missing a beat.
  • I'm on my zoom right now'nothing's going to distract me.

How to Approach

This term offers a good opportunity to discuss productivity and how your child manages their time and tasks. Ask them how they stay "on their zoom" when it comes to school, extracurriculars, or personal goals, and help them reflect on how they can maintain a healthy work-life balance while staying productive.

Questions to Ask

  • What does it feel like when you're 'on your zoom' and everything's flowing smoothly?
  • How do you stay on your zoom when there are distractions?
  • What's something that helps you get into that focused, productive zone?
  • Do you ever feel pressure to always be 'on your zoom,' and how do you handle it?
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Yassify

/#yassify

To apply exaggerated beauty filters or make someone or something appear glamorous or overdone, often in a humorous or over-the-top way.

Use Case

Yassify refers to the trend of using apps or filters to make someone look excessively glamorous, often leading to absurd results. It's usually done for comedic effect.

Examples

  • She yassified her profile pic so much, I didn't recognize her.
  • Let's yassify this old photo for fun.
  • He yassified his dog and it's hilarious.
  • Everything gets yassified these days.
  • They yassified that meme, and now it's even funnier.

How to Approach

Yassifying can lead to discussions about the use of beauty filters and social media's role in shaping perceptions of beauty and reality. Ask your child how they feel about using filters and what the appeal is in "yassifying" things for humor.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the funniest thing you've seen yassified?
  • How do you feel about filters that exaggerate looks, like yassifying?
  • Do you think yassifying is just for fun, or does it affect how people see beauty?
  • Have you ever tried yassifying a picture just for laughs?
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Yeet

/#yeet

A slang term used to express excitement or to indicate throwing something with great force.

Use Case

Yeet started as an internet meme and evolved into general slang for throwing something or expressing joy. It's used as an exclamation when someone tosses something or as a humorous reaction to an exciting moment.

Examples

  • Yeet this across the room!
  • I yeeted my phone when I saw the grade.
  • Yeet, let's do this!
  • She just yeeted that ball!
  • I'm gonna yeet this assignment and hope for the best.

How to Approach

This fun term is an opportunity to engage with your child's playful side. Use it to bond over their sense of humor and how they express excitement. It can also be a way to talk about balancing fun with responsibilities.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the funniest thing you've seen someone yeet?
  • How do you decide when to yeet something in a playful way?
  • What's something in life you feel like yeeting sometimes?
  • Do you think 'yeet' just makes things more fun when you're joking around?
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YAAS

/#yaas

A positive exclamation, often used to show excitement or approval, especially in LGBTQ+ culture.

Use Case

YAAS became popular in LGBTQ+ communities and is now used broadly to express enthusiasm or celebration, particularly when someone is impressed or delighted by something.

Examples

  • YAAS queen, you nailed it!
  • Her outfit? YAAS!
  • We won the game! YAAS!
  • That concert was amazing, YAAS!
  • He finally asked her out, YAAS!

How to Approach

YAAS is a fun, positive expression, and you can use it as a way to engage with your child's excitement and joys. It's a lighthearted way to bond over what makes them happy and proud.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something that made you say YAAS recently?
  • Why do you think YAAS has become so popular for celebrating things?
  • How does it feel to share excitement with your friends when something great happens?
  • What's a YAAS-worthy moment in your life right now?
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WTTP

/#wttp

An acronym for "Want to Trade Pics?", often used in suggestive online conversations.

Use Case

WTTP is shorthand used in texts and online chats, typically asking for the exchange of explicit or revealing photos. It's part of the risky behavior of sexting that teens may encounter.

Examples

  • He asked WTTP, and I blocked him.
  • If someone sends you WTTP, ignore it.
  • She said WTTP, but I wasn't comfortable.
  • They were talking about WTTP in the group chat.
  • I got a WTTP message out of nowhere.

How to Approach

Discussing "WTTP" is an opportunity to have an open conversation about online boundaries, the dangers of sexting, and the importance of consent. Encourage your child to be cautious when engaging with people online and to feel empowered to say no when they are uncomfortable. It's also essential to talk about the legal and emotional consequences of sharing explicit images and emphasize that they never have to share personal content, no matter the pressure.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you ever encountered someone asking for pictures online? How did you handle it?
  • What do you think about people using phrases like WTTP to ask for personal photos?
  • How would you respond if someone pressured you to send pictures you're not comfortable sharing?
  • Do you understand the potential consequences of sharing personal images, even if you trust the person asking?This conversation helps emphasize the importance of consent, privacy, and digital safety while ensuring your child knows they can turn to you if they ever feel pressured or uncomfortable online.
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Woke

/#woke

Originally a term meaning to be aware of social injustices and issues, "woke" has evolved into a more generalized term, often used sarcastically to describe someone as overly politically correct.

Use Case

Woke began as part of social justice movements, signifying awareness of issues like racism and inequality. It has since taken on both serious and ironic uses, depending on the context.

Examples

  • She's so woke, always fighting for justice.
  • Stop acting woke, it's annoying.
  • That was a woke moment, calling out that injustice.
  • I'm trying to stay woke on these issues.
  • Some people use 'woke' as an insult now.

How to Approach

Woke is a good term to discuss in terms of social awareness and activism. It's important to talk with your child about the balance between standing up for important causes and understanding why some people might push back against "woke" culture.

Questions to Ask

  • What does being 'woke' mean to you?
  • Do you think it's important to be woke about social issues?
  • How do you handle it when people mock others for being woke?
  • What are some social issues you feel strongly about?
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x (Ecstasy)

/#x-ecstasy

Slang for the drug Ecstasy, also known as MDMA, often used for its euphoric and hallucinogenic effects.

Use Case

x or Ecstasy is a popular party drug often associated with music festivals, clubs, and raves. It heightens sensory perception but can be dangerous due to its side effects and the risk of being cut with other drugs.

Examples

  • They were passing around x at the party.
  • He offered me x, but I said no.
  • I heard they were on x during the concert.
  • x can mess with your brain, I'm not risking it.
  • She got sick after taking x at the rave.

How to Approach

It's essential to talk about the dangers of using "x" and other party drugs. Emphasize the importance of making safe choices, avoiding dangerous substances, and understanding the consequences of drug use.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you know about x and its effects?
  • How do you handle situations where drugs like x are being used?
  • What's your strategy for staying safe at parties where drugs might be involved?
  • Do you feel pressure to try drugs like x, and how do you avoid it?
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Wild/Wylin'/Wildin'

/#wild-wylin-wildin

Slang for someone acting crazy, reckless, or out of control. It's often used to describe someone who is behaving in a surprising or unpredictable way.

Use Case

Wild or "wildin'" is commonly used when someone is behaving erratically or doing something surprising, whether good or bad. It's often used in a lighthearted, humorous way.

Examples

  • He was wildin' out at the party last night.
  • She's wild for saying that!
  • You're wildin' if you think I'm going to do that.
  • They were wildin' at the concert, it was chaos.
  • He's wildin' for skipping class like that.

How to Approach

This phrase is a way to discuss risky behavior and how teens perceive actions that go beyond the norm. It's a good opportunity to talk about boundaries, when fun crosses the line, and how they deal with unpredictable situations.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the wildest thing you've seen recently?
  • Do you think 'wildin'' can go too far sometimes?
  • How do you handle it when things get out of control in a social setting?
  • What's something you've done where you realized afterward, 'I was wildin''?
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Vibe Check

/#vibe-check

A phrase used to assess the general mood or energy of a person or situation. It's often used to determine whether someone is in a good or bad mood or if a situation feels positive or negative.

Use Case

A "vibe check" is about quickly assessing someone's emotional state or the atmosphere of an event. It's often used playfully but can also have deeper implications about someone's well-being.

Examples

  • You passed the vibe check'this party is lit!
  • Vibe check'how are you feeling about today?
  • He failed the vibe check, something's off.
  • This whole event has a weird vibe check.
  • She gave me a vibe check, and I knew she wasn't feeling it.

How to Approach

This phrase opens up a light-hearted way to talk about emotions and energy in social settings. It's an opportunity to ask your child about how they sense and manage the mood around them and how they respond to different vibes or emotional cues from friends.

Questions to Ask

  • What does it mean when you say someone passes or fails a 'vibe check'?
  • How do you pick up on the vibe of a situation'what do you look for?
  • Do you ever feel pressure to pass a 'vibe check' with your friends?
  • What's the last situation where you had to do a 'vibe check,' and how did it turn out?
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WAP

/#wap

Acronym for "Wet A** P***y," popularized by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion's explicit hit song. It refers to female sexual arousal.

Use Case

The term "WAP" exploded in pop culture with the release of the song and became both celebrated for its boldness and criticized for its explicit nature. It's used to refer to sexual empowerment for women, but also draws controversy for its explicitness.

Examples

  • That song WAP is everywhere.
  • She danced to WAP at the party.
  • It's too explicit for me, WAP's not my vibe.
  • They were singing WAP at the top of their lungs.
  • Some people think WAP is empowering, others hate it.

How to Approach

This term opens a conversation about sexual empowerment, media influence, and how explicit content affects teens. Discuss why certain songs gain popularity and how your child feels about the explicit nature of some media.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think about songs like WAP? Are they empowering or too much?
  • How do you feel about the balance between sexual freedom and explicit content in music?
  • Why do you think WAP became so popular so quickly?
  • Do you think songs like WAP have an impact on how people view relationships?
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Wig

/#wig

An exclamation used to convey shock, excitement, or amazement, often implying that something was so impressive it figuratively "blew their wig off." It's a dramatic reaction to something mind-blowing.

Use Case

Wig originated from LGBTQ+ and drag culture, where dramatic expressions of shock or amazement are common. The term gained popularity through internet culture and is often used to describe overwhelming excitement.

Examples

  • That performance? Wig!
  • She walked in with that outfit, and I was like, wig.
  • Wig, I can't believe this is happening!
  • That plot twist? My wig was snatched.
  • You seriously just did that? Wig.

How to Approach

This term is a fun, playful way for teens to express excitement or amazement. You can use it to talk about moments that have surprised or thrilled your child recently and ask them about what gets them excited.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the last thing that made you say 'wig'?
  • Do you use 'wig' to react to positive surprises, or is it more about being shocked?
  • What's a movie or show where you felt like your 'wig was snatched' by the ending?
  • How do you use slang like this to express excitement with your friends?
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Understood the Assignment

/#understood-the-assignment

A phrase used to describe someone who performed exceptionally well or nailed a task, project, or situation, often implying they went above and beyond expectations.

Use Case

This phrase is a compliment for someone who fully succeeded in what they set out to do, whether it's delivering a performance, outfit, or handling a situation impressively.

Examples

  • She showed up in that outfit'she understood the assignment!
  • His presentation was flawless. He definitely understood the assignment.
  • You aced that test'understood the assignment!
  • Their performance? Yeah, they understood the assignment.
  • That movie? The director understood the assignment.

How to Approach

This phrase can be a great way to talk about success, hard work, and exceeding expectations. Ask your child what it means to "understand the assignment" in their life and how they approach different tasks.

Questions to Ask

  • When was the last time you felt like you really understood the assignment?
  • Do you think it's important to always go above and beyond in what you do?
  • How do you prepare yourself to 'understand the assignment' in school or work?
  • What's something you saw recently where someone clearly understood the assignment?
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Trash

/#trash

Used to describe something as bad, worthless, or undesirable, often referring to someone's performance or attitude.

Use Case

Trash is commonly used to criticize something that's seen as low quality or someone who is acting poorly. It can be used casually to talk about anything from a bad experience to someone's rude behavior.

Examples

  • That movie was trash.
  • She acted trashy at the party.
  • His attitude was total trash.
  • Don't listen to him, that advice is trash.
  • That team played like trash last night.

How to Approach

Trash can lead to conversations about criticism and respect. Encourage your child to think about how they express dissatisfaction or negative opinions and when it's appropriate to offer constructive feedback instead of dismissive remarks.

Questions to Ask

  • What makes something 'trash' to you?
  • Do you think there's a better way to express criticism than just saying 'trash'?
  • How do you handle it when people call something you like 'trash'?
  • What's something you used to think was trash but later changed your mind about?
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Tweakin'

/#tweakin

A term used to describe someone acting irrational, overly excited, or out of control, often implying they're overreacting or acting strangely.

Use Case

Tweakin' can be used humorously to describe someone being overly dramatic, but it also has connotations of drug use, particularly methamphetamine or other stimulants, which cause erratic behavior.

Examples

  • He was tweakin' after that argument.
  • Why are you tweakin' over something so small?
  • She's been tweakin' all day, must be stressed.
  • You're tweakin' if you think that's a good idea.
  • He was totally tweakin' at the party last night.

How to Approach

Talk to your child about how they perceive tweakin' and whether they see it as a harmless joke or something more serious, especially when related to substance abuse. Encourage them to understand the different contexts in which the word is used.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think it means when someone's tweakin'?
  • Do you see people using the term to joke around, or are there more serious situations?
  • How do you handle it when friends are overreacting or acting out of control?
  • Have you ever seen someone acting erratically and felt concerned?
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Trap Phone/Burner Phone

/#trap-phone-burner-phone

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Tool

/#tool

A derogatory term used to describe someone who is seen as overly arrogant, obnoxious, or trying too hard to fit in.

Use Case

Tool is used to insult someone who is perceived as obnoxious or fake, usually someone who is arrogant or trying too hard to impress others.

Examples

  • He's such a tool, always showing off.
  • Don't be a tool, just be yourself.
  • Everyone thinks he's cool, but he's kind of a tool.
  • She said that guy is a total tool.
  • Why is he acting like such a tool today?

How to Approach

Tool can lead to a discussion about authenticity and how people navigate social pressures. It's a chance to explore what behaviors are seen as annoying or disingenuous and how your child handles social dynamics.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think makes someone a 'tool'?
  • Do you ever feel pressure to fit in, even if it feels fake?
  • How do you avoid being seen as a tool while staying true to yourself?
  • What's the best way to deal with people you think are acting like tools?
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Touch Grass

/#touch-grass

A phrase used to tell someone to step away from the internet or digital world and reconnect with reality, implying they need a break from online behavior.

Use Case

Touch grass is often used to suggest that someone has been spending too much time online or is out of touch with reality. It's usually meant as a humorous, if slightly insulting, reminder to take a break.

Examples

  • You've been arguing online for hours, go touch some grass.
  • She needs to touch grass and stop obsessing over Twitter.
  • I told him to touch grass after that ridiculous comment.
  • I've been gaming too long, time to touch some grass.
  • If you think that's true, you need to touch grass.

How to Approach

This term offers a chance to discuss healthy online habits and the importance of balancing screen time with real-world experiences. Ask your child how they manage time online and whether they need reminders to take breaks.

Questions to Ask

  • How do you know when it's time to 'touch grass' and take a break?
  • Do you think people spend too much time online?
  • What's your favorite way to disconnect and recharge offline?
  • How do you balance social media and real-life experiences?
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Thot

/#thot

An acronym for "That Ho Over There," used derogatorily to describe someone, typically a woman, who is perceived as promiscuous.

Use Case

Thot is often used to shame or insult someone, particularly women, for their sexual behavior. It's a harmful term that promotes slut-shaming and can contribute to toxic attitudes about sexuality.

Examples

  • She's such a thot, always flirting with guys.
  • Everyone at school calls her a thot.
  • He only dates thots.
  • Don't be a thot, have some self-respect.
  • They were making thot jokes all day.

How to Approach

Talking about "thot" allows you to address issues around slut-shaming, respect, and the harmful ways people talk about sexuality. It's important to help your child understand the importance of treating others with dignity and rejecting harmful labels.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think when people use the word 'thot'?
  • Why do you think some people shame others for their sexuality?
  • How can we talk about relationships and respect without labeling people?
  • What's the best way to stand up to harmful language like 'thot'?
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Thug It Out

/#thug-it-out

A phrase used to describe pushing through tough situations or persevering despite challenges, often associated with resilience.

Use Case

Thug it out means enduring or handling a difficult experience with toughness and strength. It often suggests facing adversity head-on, even when it's emotionally or physically taxing.

Examples

  • I just have to thug it out through these finals.
  • We're gonna thug it out even though the weather is bad.
  • She had a rough day, but she's thugging it out.
  • I'm feeling down, but I'll thug it out.
  • We thugged it out during practice, despite the coach being harsh.

How to Approach

This term provides an entry into discussing resilience, mental toughness, and how your child handles adversity. You can talk about the importance of pushing through challenges, while also recognizing when it's okay to ask for help.

Questions to Ask

  • What does 'thug it out' mean to you when things get tough?
  • Do you ever feel pressure to 'thug it out' instead of asking for help?
  • How do you balance being strong with knowing when to seek support?
  • What's a situation where you had to thug it out, and how did you feel afterward?
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This/That Ain't It, Chief

/#this-that-aint-it-chief

A phrase used to express disapproval or disagreement with something, often used to suggest that a decision or action isn't the right move.

Use Case

This ain't it, chief is a casual way to say that something is wrong, unwise, or not ideal. It's often used humorously or in response to questionable decisions or behaviors.

Examples

  • That outfit? Sorry, but that ain't it, chief.
  • You're texting him again? That ain't it, chief.
  • This weather today? That ain't it, chief.
  • I tried the new restaurant, and it just wasn't it, chief.
  • The way they handled that argument? That ain't it, chief.

How to Approach

This phrase is a way to discuss judgment, decision-making, and how teens express disagreement. It can open conversations about how to offer constructive criticism or handle bad decisions.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you saw recently and thought, 'that ain't it, chief'?
  • Do you use this phrase more for humor or when giving real feedback?
  • How do you balance saying 'this ain't it' without being too harsh?
  • What's something you once thought 'ain't it,' but later changed your mind about?
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Thirst Trap

/#thirst-trap

A photo or video posted on social media with the intention of attracting attention or compliments, usually by showcasing one's physical appearance in a provocative or suggestive way.

Use Case

Thirst trap refers to content that is meant to garner admiration or "thirst" from others, typically on social media platforms like Instagram or Snapchat.

Examples

  • She posted a total thirst trap on Instagram last night.
  • That's a thirst trap if I've ever seen one.
  • He's always posting thirst traps to get more likes.
  • I posted a thirst trap and got so many DMs.
  • That selfie is basically a thirst trap.

How to Approach

This term can lead to important conversations about online behavior, self-esteem, and attention-seeking. Discuss the motivations behind posting "thirst traps" and whether your child feels pressured to post certain types of photos for validation.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think about people posting 'thirst traps,' and why do they do it?
  • Do you feel pressured to post certain types of photos to get likes or attention?
  • How do you balance posting content you're proud of without seeking too much outside validation?
  • What's your approach to being confident without relying on social media feedback?
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Thicc

/#thicc

Slang used to describe someone, usually a woman, who has a curvier body with an emphasis on larger thighs and hips.

Use Case

Thicc is often used as a compliment for someone with a fuller, curvier body type. It's popular on social media and is usually meant to praise someone's figure.

Examples

  • She's so thicc, everyone was staring.
  • That outfit makes her look even more thicc.
  • He loves thicc girls.
  • I wish I was thicc like her.
  • They kept commenting about how thicc she looked.

How to Approach

Discussing "thicc" is an opportunity to talk about body positivity and how society views different body types. Encourage your child to value body diversity and resist objectifying language.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think about people using the word 'thicc'? Is it always positive?
  • How do you feel about people commenting on body types like that?
  • Do you think there's pressure to look a certain way on social media?
  • How can we celebrate all body types without making anyone feel objectified?
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TFW

/#tfw

Short for "That Feeling When," used to describe a relatable emotion or experience in a humorous or serious way.

Use Case

TFW is used mostly on social media to convey a specific emotion or reaction to a common situation. It's often paired with an image or meme to enhance the relatable feeling.

Examples

  • TFW you finally finish your homework.
  • TFW you see your crush in the hallway.
  • TFW you're late, but no one notices.
  • TFW the Wi-Fi goes out right before a game.
  • TFW you realize the weekend is almost over.

How to Approach

TFW is a fun, relatable way to discuss emotions and shared experiences. Ask your child about moments they find universally relatable, and you can bond over funny or serious emotions everyone feels at times.

Questions to Ask

  • What's a recent 'TFW' moment you've had?
  • Do you think 'TFW' helps people connect over shared feelings?
  • What's something that always gives you a 'TFW' reaction?
  • How do you handle those moments where you feel a strong 'TFW'?
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Tea

/#tea

Gossip or news, particularly juicy or scandalous information.

Use Case

Tea is a term used to describe gossip or stories that people share for entertainment. "Spilling the tea" means to reveal juicy details, and it's often used in a lighthearted way.

Examples

  • Spill the tea, what happened at the party?
  • I've got some tea about her new boyfriend.
  • We were just sitting around spilling tea.
  • That's the hottest tea I've heard all week.
  • You missed it'there was major tea at school today.

How to Approach

Tea is a good way to talk about how gossip can affect people and relationships. Ask your child how they feel about gossip and whether they think it's harmful or just harmless fun. It's a great opportunity to discuss the importance of kindness and integrity.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the last tea you heard? Do you think it's true?
  • How do you feel when people spill tea about others?
  • Do you think gossip can hurt people's feelings?
  • What's a good way to balance staying informed without spreading harmful tea?
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Swoop

/#swoop

To take something or someone, often referring to winning over a romantic interest or grabbing an opportunity before someone else does.

Use Case

Swoop is often used in dating contexts to describe when someone "swoops in" and steals a romantic interest from someone else, or it can be used to describe snatching up an opportunity quickly.

Examples

  • He swooped her after the party.
  • I gotta swoop those tickets before they sell out.
  • She swooped in and took my spot!
  • He's always trying to swoop girls.
  • I swooped the last seat in class.

How to Approach

Talking about "swoop" is a way to discuss competition, whether in dating or social situations. It can lead to conversations about fairness, respect, and the importance of not taking things at others' expense.

Questions to Ask

  • What does it mean to swoop in a situation?
  • Do you think swooping someone is fair in dating or competitions?
  • How do you handle it when someone swoops something you wanted?
  • Have you ever been the one to swoop, and how did it feel afterward?
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Suss

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Short for "suspicious" or "suspect," "suss" is used to describe someone or something that seems shady or untrustworthy.

Use Case

Suss became especially popular in gaming communities, like Among Us, where players accuse others of suspicious behavior. It has since spread to general slang.

Examples

  • That guy is so suss, I don't trust him.
  • This whole situation seems suss.
  • Why is he acting so suss lately?
  • That's suss'why didn't you tell me sooner?
  • She's being suss about her plans for tonight.

How to Approach

Suss offers a chance to talk about trust, transparency, and how your child navigates situations where they feel suspicious of someone's motives or actions. You can ask them how they handle feelings of doubt and what makes them feel secure in their relationships.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something that's been 'suss' recently, and how did you deal with it?
  • How do you figure out if someone's being honest or if they're acting suspicious?
  • What do you do when you feel suss about someone's intentions?
  • Have you ever been called 'suss,' and how did you respond?
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STFU

/#stfu

An abbreviation for "Shut the F*** Up," used to tell someone to be quiet, often in a blunt or aggressive manner.

Use Case

STFU is commonly used in online arguments or casually among friends when someone wants to tell another person to stop talking. It can be playful or hostile depending on the context.

Examples

  • He kept talking, so I just said STFU.
  • STFU, you're lying!
  • When she said that, I was like, STFU!
  • Everyone was yelling STFU at the concert.
  • I'm so annoyed, STFU already.

How to Approach

Talking about "STFU" can help you explore how your child handles conflict and frustration. Encourage them to think about the impact of using aggressive language and how it might affect their relationships.

Questions to Ask

  • Do you ever feel tempted to tell someone to 'STFU'? What pushes you to that point?
  • Why do you think people use 'STFU' instead of expressing frustration more calmly?
  • How do you feel when someone says 'STFU' to you?
  • What are some better ways to handle situations when you feel annoyed?
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Stealthing

/#stealthing

A serious and illegal act of removing a condom during sex without consent, a form of sexual assault.

Use Case

Stealthing is a dangerous practice that violates trust and consent in intimate relationships. It has legal and emotional consequences, and it's essential for teens to understand the seriousness of this behavior.

Examples

  • I heard about stealthing, and it's awful.
  • She found out he was stealthing, and now everyone's talking about it.
  • Stealthing is not just disrespectful, it's illegal.
  • He thinks stealthing is a joke, but it's serious.
  • People need to be aware of what stealthing is and how it violates consent.

How to Approach

This is a highly sensitive topic that requires clear communication about consent and sexual boundaries. Make sure your child understands what constitutes respectful behavior in relationships and the legal and emotional ramifications of stealthing.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you ever heard of stealthing, and do you understand why it's considered assault?
  • What are your thoughts on consent and how to ensure both partners are respected?
  • How would you handle it if someone you knew experienced something like this?
  • Do you feel confident setting boundaries and discussing consent in relationships?
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Stan

/#stan

A combination of "stalker" and "fan," "stan" refers to an extremely dedicated and enthusiastic fan of a celebrity, influencer, or even a friend. It can be used as both a noun (to describe a fan) and a verb (to describe the act of obsessively supporting someone).

Use Case

Stan can be a positive term to describe passionate fandom, but it can also have negative connotations if the fan's devotion is extreme or obsessive.

Examples

  • I stan that artist so hard!
  • We're all stans of her fashion sense.
  • I stan their relationship'they're so cute together.
  • I'm a total stan for that TV show.
  • They have so many stans on Instagram.

How to Approach

This term can lead to discussions about the difference between healthy admiration and unhealthy obsession. Ask your child about their interests and what they're passionate about, but also explore the potential dangers of idolizing someone to an extreme degree.

Questions to Ask

  • Who do you 'stan,' and why do you admire them so much?
  • Do you think there's a difference between stanning someone and being obsessed?
  • How do you make sure that your admiration for someone doesn't become unhealthy?
  • Why do you think people feel such strong connections to celebrities or influencers?
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Squad

/#squad

A close-knit group of friends who regularly hang out or support each other.

Use Case

Squad is often used to refer to a tight group of friends, usually with a strong sense of loyalty and camaraderie. It's a modern way of saying "crew" or "clique."

Examples

  • Hanging with the squad tonight.
  • Squad goals, we're all so close.
  • This is my squad, always got my back.
  • Squad up for the party!
  • Our squad is stronger than ever.

How to Approach

Talking about "squad" can help you learn about your child's friendship dynamics and who they rely on most. It's an opportunity to discuss loyalty, trust, and the importance of healthy relationships.

Questions to Ask

  • Who's in your squad, and how did you all become so close?
  • What makes a good squad for you?
  • How do you and your squad support each other through tough times?
  • What's your favorite thing to do with your squad?
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Snatched

/#snatched

Used to describe someone's appearance as being exceptionally well put together, usually referring to an impressive figure or outfit.

Use Case

Snatched is a compliment that originated in drag culture and has made its way into mainstream slang. It's used to describe someone's outfit, makeup, or body when they look particularly sharp or flawless.

Examples

  • Your waist is snatched!
  • She came to prom looking snatched.
  • That dress is snatched on you.
  • Her whole look was snatched last night.
  • He's been working out, his body is snatched.

How to Approach

Talking about "snatched" offers an opportunity to discuss self-confidence, body image, and how society places value on appearance. It's important to encourage your child to value themselves beyond just their physical appearance. You can also use this as a chance to talk about the pressures of social media and how people curate their lives to look "snatched" online, sometimes at the cost of mental health and self-worth.

Questions to Ask

  • What does 'snatched' mean to you when you use it or hear it?
  • Do you think people feel pressure to look snatched all the time, especially on social media?
  • How do you balance taking pride in your appearance with not letting it define your self-worth?
  • Have you ever felt like people judge you only by how 'snatched' you look? How does that make you feel?
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Spam

/#spam

Posting or sending repetitive or irrelevant messages, often in large quantities, either in chats, comment sections, or via text.

Use Case

Spam refers to sending excessive messages or content, often to annoy or overwhelm others. In social media, teens might "spam" someone's post with likes or comments, either playfully or to be irritating.

Examples

  • Stop spamming my DMs!
  • They spammed my notifications with likes.
  • I had to block him because he kept spamming me.
  • She spammed the group chat all night.
  • People keep spamming the comments with emojis.

How to Approach

Spam is a good way to talk about online etiquette and boundaries. Discuss how excessive messaging or posting can affect others and why it's important to respect people's space online.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you ever had someone spam your messages or comments?
  • Why do you think people spam others, and how do you handle it?
  • How do you set boundaries with people who won't stop spamming?
  • What's a better way to engage online without overwhelming people?
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SMDH

/#smdh

An abbreviation for "Shaking My Damn Head," used to express disappointment or disbelief.

Use Case

SMDH is often used in text or social media posts when someone is frustrated, disappointed, or can't believe what they're seeing. It's an exaggerated form of "SMH" (Shaking My Head), used when something is especially ridiculous or annoying.

Examples

  • He just canceled again, SMDH.
  • SMDH at that awful take.
  • I can't believe they did that, SMDH.
  • The way they handled that situation? SMDH.
  • SMDH, people need to get it together.

How to Approach

This term gives you a way to talk about frustration and how your child deals with disappointing or confusing situations. Ask about what kinds of things make them say "SMDH" and how they handle feeling let down.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something that made you say 'SMDH' recently?
  • How do you handle it when things don't go as expected?
  • Do you think saying 'SMDH' helps express frustration in a healthy way?
  • What's a situation where you felt SMDH but found a way to laugh it off?
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Snack

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A compliment used to describe someone who looks attractive, similar to saying someone looks "good enough to eat."

Use Case

Snack is a playful term used to compliment someone's appearance, often suggesting that they look especially appealing or attractive.

Examples

  • He's looking like a whole snack today.
  • She came to the party looking like a snack.
  • I felt like a snack in that outfit.
  • He's such a snack in that new jacket.
  • They're all calling him a snack now.

How to Approach

Using the term "snack" in conversation can help you engage your teen about body positivity and how compliments are received or given. It's a way to discuss self-confidence and how appearance plays into social interactions.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think when people say someone looks like a snack?
  • Do you feel flattered when someone calls you a snack?
  • How do you handle compliments about your appearance?
  • What's a healthy way to balance feeling good about yourself without focusing too much on looks?
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Smash

/#smash

A term used to indicate sexual attraction or the act of engaging in sexual activity.

Use Case

Smash is often used in the context of hook-up culture to refer to having casual sex or expressing interest in someone sexually. It can sometimes be used humorously in non-sexual situations too.

Examples

  • Would you smash or pass?
  • He's been trying to smash her for weeks.
  • I heard they smashed last night.
  • I'm not looking to smash; I want something serious.
  • They joked about smashing, but they're just friends.

How to Approach

Use this as an opportunity to talk openly about relationships, sexual boundaries, and respect. It's important to have honest conversations about consent, communication, and how your child approaches dating and physical attraction.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you heard people talking about 'smashing'? What do you think it means?
  • How do you feel about people who focus only on hooking up?
  • What do you think is the most important part of a healthy relationship?
  • How do you handle conversations about intimacy and respect with your friends?
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Sleep On

/#sleep-on

To underestimate or ignore the value of something or someone, often used in the context of trends, music, or talents that are overlooked.

Use Case

Sleep on is used when someone fails to recognize the greatness of something or someone, implying that they've been underappreciated or underestimated.

Examples

  • Don't sleep on this artist, they're amazing.
  • People are sleeping on that movie, it's so good.
  • You're sleeping on me if you think I can't win.
  • I used to sleep on sushi, but now I love it.
  • They're sleeping on her talent, she's going to be huge.

How to Approach

This phrase opens up a conversation about recognition, talents, and how people sometimes miss out on opportunities. Ask your child what they feel is "slept on" in their life and why.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you think people are 'sleeping on' that deserves more attention?
  • Do you ever feel like people sleep on your talents or ideas?
  • How do you make sure you're not 'sleeping on' opportunities?
  • What's something you used to sleep on but now appreciate?
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Sloshed

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A term used to describe being extremely drunk or intoxicated.

Use Case

Sloshed is often used to describe someone who has consumed too much alcohol and is visibly drunk. It's typically a casual, slang way of saying someone is very intoxicated.

Examples

  • He was so sloshed at the party.
  • I got sloshed after a few too many drinks.
  • She couldn't even stand up, she was sloshed.
  • The whole group was sloshed by midnight.
  • We promised not to get sloshed this time.

How to Approach

Talking about "sloshed" offers an opportunity to discuss alcohol use, binge drinking, and the importance of moderation. Encourage your child to think about the consequences of overdrinking and how to stay safe.

Questions to Ask

  • What's your opinion on people getting sloshed at parties?
  • How do you handle peer pressure to drink more than you're comfortable with?
  • What's your plan for staying in control and avoiding risky situations?
  • Do you think being sloshed is something to avoid, and why?
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Slay

/#slay

"Slay" means to perform exceptionally well, often in terms of style, confidence, or achievement.

Use Case

Slay started as part of LGBTQ+ and drag culture, where it meant to dominate or perform something flawlessly, especially in the context of fashion or attitude. Over time, it entered mainstream slang to describe anyone who is excelling, particularly in their appearance, confidence, or actions. Teens often use "slay" as a form of empowerment or praise.

Examples

  • You totally slayed that outfit!
  • She walked into the room and just slayed.
  • That performance was a total slay.
  • You slay every time you hit the stage!
  • Slay, queen, slay!

How to Approach

Slay is a term you can use to have a positive, affirming conversation with your child about confidence and self-expression. It opens up a chance to talk about self-esteem, how they present themselves, and what it means to feel empowered in their daily lives.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you did recently that you felt you really slayed?
  • Do you feel confident when you slay, or does it take practice?
  • What makes someone really slay, in your opinion?
  • Is there anyone you look up to who always slays?
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Skibidi

/#skibidi

A viral meme or sound that became popular on TikTok, often tied to quirky, repetitive dance moves or humor.

Use Case

Skibidi is a meme phrase associated with a viral dance that exploded in popularity through TikTok videos. It's often accompanied by random, exaggerated dance moves set to catchy, upbeat music. While the term itself doesn't have a deep meaning, it's part of internet humor and meme culture, where words and sounds become part of shared social trends just by being catchy or funny.

Examples

  • Have you seen the new Skibidi trend? It's hilarious!
  • Let's make a Skibidi video for TikTok.
  • That Skibidi song gets stuck in my head every time.
  • She nailed the Skibidi dance!
  • Skibidi is all over my feed right now.

How to Approach

It's important to stay aware of viral trends like Skibidi to understand what's shaping your child's social world. Meme culture often creates shared experiences among teens, and participating in or talking about these trends can help you connect with your child over humor or creativity.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the deal with the Skibidi trend? Can you show me?
  • Do you like watching or creating meme videos like Skibidi?
  • What makes something like Skibidi go viral?
  • Does Skibidi make you laugh, or do you think it's just silly?
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Sigma

/#sigma

"Sigma" describes someone who is independent, self-reliant, and doesn't conform to social hierarchies like an "alpha" would.

Use Case

Sigma comes from the idea of a "lone wolf"'someone who chooses to operate outside of traditional social structures or hierarchies. It's often seen as a counterpart to the "alpha," where the "sigma" is equally confident and capable but prefers independence over leading a group. In teen slang, it can be used to describe individuals who do their own thing without caring about societal expectations.

Examples

  • He's a sigma'he doesn't care what anyone thinks.
  • Sigma grindset, focusing on my goals.
  • She's not about that alpha life; she's totally sigma.
  • Being a sigma means you don't need anyone else's approval.
  • He's on his sigma wave, just doing his own thing.

How to Approach

Talking about "sigma" with your child can open up discussions about independence, self-confidence, and the value of following your own path. It's important to encourage your child's individuality while also discussing the balance between independence and teamwork.

Questions to Ask

  • What does it mean to you to be a sigma?
  • Do you feel more sigma or alpha in different situations?
  • How do you balance being independent with staying connected to others?
  • Why do you think so many people admire sigma traits?
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Simp

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A slang term used to describe someone, typically a man, who goes to excessive lengths to please someone they are romantically interested in, often without reciprocation. It is commonly used in a derogatory way to imply that the person is being submissive or overly eager to gain attention or affection.

Use Case

Simp is generally used to call out behavior where someone is perceived as trying too hard to win favor with someone they like, often making themselves appear desperate or overly accommodating.

Examples

  • He's such a simp, always doing her homework for her.
  • Stop simping over someone who doesn't care about you.
  • She called him a simp because he's always complimenting her.
  • He's been simping in her DMs for weeks.
  • I don't want to look like a simp, so I'm backing off.

How to Approach

Simp can lead to important conversations about healthy relationships, self-respect, and boundaries. Discuss with your child the difference between being kind and supportive versus losing one's self-respect in pursuit of someone else's approval. Help them understand the importance of mutual respect in any relationship.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think about the term 'simp'? Why do people use it?
  • Have you ever felt like you were doing too much for someone who didn't appreciate it?
  • How can you show someone you care without being taken for granted or feeling like a 'simp'?
  • What's a healthy way to balance being kind and maintaining self-respect in relationships?
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Shook

/#shook

A slang term used to describe being emotionally or physically shocked, surprised, or disturbed by something unexpected. It conveys a strong reaction to something that has left a person unsettled, excited, or deeply impacted.

Use Case

Shook is often used to express how something has deeply affected someone, whether in a positive or negative way. It's common on social media when reacting to surprising news, a twist in a movie or show, or a personal event that leaves someone speechless.

Examples

  • I'm still shook after that horror movie.
  • That test left me shook'I wasn't ready!
  • Her performance was so amazing, I'm shook.
  • When I found out the news, I was completely shook.
  • That plot twist had me shook for days.

How to Approach

Shook is a great term to discuss your child's emotional reactions to surprising or impactful events. Ask them what makes them feel "shook" and how they process these experiences, whether they are related to school, social situations, or entertainment. This can be an entry point into talking about how they deal with intense emotions or surprises in life.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the last thing that left you feeling 'shook,' and how did you handle it?
  • How do you react when something shocks or surprises you emotionally?
  • Have you ever been 'shook' by something in a good way, like by an amazing performance or experience?
  • What do you do when you're 'shook' by something negative, and how do you cope?
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Ship

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A slang term short for "relationship," commonly used in fandoms to express support for a romantic relationship between two characters or people, whether fictional or real.

Use Case

Ship is often used in fan communities when people want two characters or celebrities to be in a romantic relationship. It can also be used casually to describe any romantic pairing someone supports.

Examples

  • I totally ship them together!
  • That movie made me ship those characters so hard.
  • People are always trying to ship me with my best friend.
  • Everyone ships those two actors IRL.
  • Do you ship them, or do you think they're better off as friends?

How to Approach

Ship is a fun, harmless term in most cases but can sometimes lead to uncomfortable situations when people are pressured into relationships. Ask your child about how they use this term and if they've encountered shipping pressure in real life.

Questions to Ask

  • Who's a fictional couple you totally ship, and why?
  • Have you ever felt weird if someone tries to 'ship' you with someone else?
  • Why do you think people enjoy shipping characters or celebrities so much?
  • How do you handle it when people ship real-life relationships that might not even exist?
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Serving

/#serving

A phrase used to describe someone who is impressively showcasing their style, talent, or confidence, usually in a dramatic or impactful way.

Use Case

Serving is often used in fashion or performance contexts to indicate that someone is confidently delivering a look or vibe. It's a form of praise for how well someone is executing something.

Examples

  • She's serving looks at the party tonight.
  • He's serving confidence on that stage.
  • This outfit is serving major 90s vibes.
  • You're serving talent, keep it up!
  • That performance was serving!

How to Approach

Serving provides a fun way to talk about confidence and how your child sees themselves and others excelling. It's also a chance to discuss how they express their talents or style.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the last thing you saw that was 'serving'?
  • How do you serve confidence or style in your daily life?
  • Why do you think people love to say 'serving' when someone's doing well?
  • What's your favorite part of feeling like you're serving your best self?
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Say Less

/#say-less

A phrase used to indicate that someone fully understands or agrees with what's being said, implying no further explanation is needed.

Use Case

Say less is often used in response to someone's request or comment to show that the speaker already gets the point or is on board with the plan.

Examples

  • We're going to the concert tonight'say less, I'm in.
  • Say less, I already know what to do.
  • He asked for help, and I said, say less, I'm on it.
  • I got it, say less!
  • Say less, I'm ready for this challenge.

How to Approach

Say less is a great conversation starter about how your child communicates agreement or understanding. It's also a chance to talk about when it's okay to say less and when it's important to ask for clarity.

Questions to Ask

  • What situations make you want to say 'say less'?
  • Do you think 'say less' can sometimes stop important conversations?
  • How do you decide when to speak up versus just saying 'say less'?
  • What's the last thing someone said where you just thought, 'say less, I get it'?
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Roman Empire

/#roman-empire

A recent meme trend where men are asked how often they think about the Roman Empire, revealing that many men apparently think about it surprisingly often.

Use Case

The "Roman Empire" meme exploded on TikTok, where women discovered that men frequently think about the Roman Empire, much to their surprise. It's become a humorous way to ask about random, obsessive thoughts.

Examples

  • He said he thinks about the Roman Empire at least once a week.
  • Why are all the guys suddenly talking about the Roman Empire?
  • It's so random'why the Roman Empire of all things?
  • She asked me how often I think about the Roman Empire, and I had no idea!
  • Apparently, it's a thing for guys to think about the Roman Empire constantly.

How to Approach

This trend can lead to fun conversations about unexpected thoughts and interests. It's a lighthearted way to ask your child about quirky things they obsess over, whether it's history, hobbies, or random facts.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you heard about the Roman Empire meme? What's your take on it?
  • What's something you think about as much as people think about the Roman Empire?
  • Why do you think this meme got so popular?
  • Do you have any random historical or weird interests like the Roman Empire?
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Salty

/#salty

Used to describe someone who is bitter, angry, or upset over something minor or trivial.

Use Case

Salty is a popular way to describe someone's mood when they're upset, often about something that others perceive as not a big deal. It's used in a playful, teasing manner but can also reflect genuine irritation.

Examples

  • She's so salty about losing the game.
  • Don't be salty, it's just a joke.
  • I can't believe he's still salty about that comment.
  • You sound salty'what's bothering you?
  • He gets salty whenever things don't go his way.

How to Approach

Talking about being "salty" can open up a conversation about how your child handles frustration and disappointment. It's important to explore how they express negative emotions and whether they feel heard when something bothers them.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something that made you feel salty recently?
  • How do you handle it when you get salty over something?
  • Do you think being salty is just about frustration or something deeper?
  • What's a good way to get over feeling salty when things don't go as planned?
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Rizz

/#rizz

"Rizz" is short for charisma or charm, particularly in flirting or attracting someone's attention.

Use Case

Rizz is a newer slang term popularized by social media, particularly TikTok, to describe someone who is effortlessly charming or skilled at flirting. Originally coined by YouTuber and influencer Kai Cenat, "rizz" is often used to describe a person who has game'meaning they know how to communicate in a smooth and appealing way. It's a flexible term that can apply to both social situations and romantic ones.

Examples

  • He's got mad rizz; everyone likes him.
  • I need to work on my rizz game before the dance.
  • She's full of rizz; she can talk to anyone!
  • That guy tried to flirt, but he had zero rizz.
  • When she starts talking, her rizz just takes over.

How to Approach

Talking to your child about "rizz" can be a fun way to bridge the gap between generations. It's important to recognize that this term reflects a part of social and romantic interactions that teens are learning to navigate. Acknowledging this helps open up conversations about social dynamics, self-confidence, and respect for others in relationships.

Questions to Ask

  • I've heard of 'rizz.' What do you think it means?
  • Who do you think has the best rizz at school?
  • How do you handle it when someone uses rizz on you?
  • Do you think rizz is something you can learn, or are people just born with it?
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Rent-Free

/#rent-free

A phrase used to describe someone or something occupying your thoughts constantly without your control, as if they are "living rent-free" in your mind. It often implies an obsession or overthinking about something that may not be worth the mental energy.

Use Case

Rent-free is often used humorously to describe how a person, event, or even a meme takes up mental space for longer than necessary. It can refer to someone thinking too much about an ex, a random comment, or anything else that sticks in their mind unnecessarily.

Examples

  • That comment is living rent-free in my head.
  • She's still thinking about the breakup'it's living rent-free.
  • That meme is so funny, it's been living rent-free in my mind all day.
  • Why are you letting that live rent-free in your head? Just let it go.
  • He's obsessed with what people think of him, it's rent-free at this point.

How to Approach

This term can lead to a deeper conversation about mental space, emotional boundaries, and how to handle situations or people that occupy too much thought. Ask your child about what kinds of things live "rent-free" in their mind, and help them develop strategies for letting go of thoughts that are draining their mental energy or causing stress.

Questions to Ask

  • Is there anything that's been living 'rent-free' in your head lately? How do you manage it?
  • What's your strategy for letting go of thoughts that aren't worth your time or energy?
  • Do you ever find yourself thinking about things that don't matter in the long run, and how do you refocus?
  • Why do you think certain people or events take up so much space in your mind?
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Ratio

/#ratio

In social media, "ratio" refers to a post where the replies or negative interactions (dislikes or retweets) significantly outnumber the likes or positive interactions, often indicating a controversial or unpopular opinion.

Use Case

When a post is "ratioed," it means more people are criticizing or mocking it than agreeing with or liking it.

Examples

  • That tweet got ratioed so hard.
  • I can't believe he got ratioed in the comments.
  • They tried to defend themselves, but they just got ratioed.
  • This post is about to get ratioed.
  • She ratioed him with her response.

How to Approach

Ratio can lead to discussions about online popularity, public backlash, and how teens navigate criticism on social media. Encourage conversations about resilience and handling negative online interactions.

Questions to Ask

  • What does it mean to get 'ratioed,' and how does it affect people online?
  • Do you think getting 'ratioed' is always deserved, or can it sometimes be unfair?
  • How do you handle criticism or negative feedback on social media?
  • Have you ever seen a post get ratioed, and what did you think about it?
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Pop Off

/#pop-off

A phrase used to encourage someone or compliment their action, often implying that they're excelling or doing something impressive.

Use Case

Pop off is used both to cheer someone on when they're doing something great and to compliment someone who's in the process of doing something cool or assertive.

Examples

  • She popped off with that speech!
  • Pop off, queen!
  • He popped off during the game.
  • Your outfit is popping off!
  • She's about to pop off on that stage.

How to Approach

Pop off offers a way to talk about celebrating achievements and cheering each other on. You can explore how your child uses this term to encourage others or receive encouragement.

Questions to Ask

  • When's the last time someone told you to 'pop off'?
  • Do you think cheering people on like this helps them perform better?
  • What's something you've done that made you feel like you popped off?
  • How do you feel when people pop off in a big way?
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Pookie

/#pookie

A term of endearment often used to refer to someone special, like a close friend or romantic partner. It's a cute, affectionate nickname.

Use Case

Pookie is typically used as a pet name, often in a playful or loving context. It can be used between friends or in romantic relationships to show affection.

Examples

  • Pookie, can you help me with this?
  • I call her Pookie because she's my best friend.
  • Goodnight, Pookie!
  • He sent me a message saying, 'Miss you, Pookie.'
  • We always joke around and call each other Pookie.

How to Approach

Using terms like "Pookie" can be a fun way to explore how your child expresses affection. Ask who they call Pookie and what nicknames mean to them. It can be a lighthearted way to learn more about their relationships.

Questions to Ask

  • Who's your Pookie? What's the story behind that nickname?
  • Do you think using pet names is important in friendships or relationships?
  • What's a nickname that someone's given you, and how did it make you feel?
  • How do you feel when people use affectionate terms like Pookie?
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Poggers

/#poggers

A term that originated in the gaming community, "poggers" is an expression of excitement or amazement, often used in response to something impressive that happens in a game.

Use Case

Poggers is frequently used in gaming chats to celebrate a win, a clutch moment, or something cool happening. It's derived from "PogChamp," a popular Twitch emote.

Examples

  • That play was poggers!
  • Poggers moment, we finally won!
  • He hit the shot? Poggers!
  • The whole game was just poggers.
  • She nailed the final move'poggers!

How to Approach

Poggers is a lighthearted and fun term tied to gaming culture. Ask your child about the games they play or their favorite streamers to open a conversation about their hobbies and interests.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something 'poggers' that happened in your game recently?
  • Do you use 'poggers' to celebrate only gaming moments, or other things too?
  • Who's your favorite streamer that always has 'poggers' moments?
  • How do you feel when something poggers happens in a game?
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Plug

/#plug

Slang for someone who provides access to something, especially when it comes to drugs or exclusive items. A "plug" is someone who can hook you up.

Use Case

Plug is often used to refer to someone who can provide hard-to-get items, typically in contexts like drugs, tickets, or rare fashion items.

Examples

  • He's the plug for concert tickets.
  • If you need new sneakers, she's the plug.
  • I need to hit up my plug for some new gear.
  • Everyone goes to him because he's the plug for everything.
  • She's got the plug for all the exclusive events.

How to Approach

The term "plug" can refer to harmless connections or more dangerous ones, such as someone providing drugs. It's important to discuss the context in which the term is used and the risks associated with relying on questionable "plugs."

Questions to Ask

  • When people talk about 'the plug,' what kind of things are they referring to?
  • Have you ever heard people use 'plug' in a risky or illegal context?
  • How do you decide who to trust when someone offers to hook you up with something?
  • What's your take on using plugs for items or experiences that are hard to get?
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Period/Periodt

/#period-periodt

"Period" is used at the end of a statement to emphasize that there is no argument or debate to be had. It's final and assertive.

Use Case

Period is often used to show the finality of a statement. It's like saying "end of discussion" or "that's it, there's no more to say." It became popular through internet culture, particularly Twitter, where people used it to punctuate their thoughts in a sassy, confident way. Teens use it to emphasize their opinion or make it clear that something is a fact in their eyes.

Examples

  • I look amazing, period.
  • I don't owe anyone an explanation, period.
  • That's the best movie of the year, period.
  • You can't tell me what to do, period.
  • She won the argument, period.

How to Approach

Talking about "period" with your child can be a way to explore how they assert themselves and make their voice heard. It's important to discuss how emphasizing your opinion can be empowering but also to understand when it's important to listen to others and remain open to different perspectives.

Questions to Ask

  • What kinds of things make you say 'period' at the end?
  • When is it important to stand your ground and say 'period'?
  • Have you ever said 'period' and realized later that you were wrong?
  • How do you balance confidence in your opinions with being open to others?
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OK, Boomer

/#ok-boomer

A dismissive phrase used by younger generations to mock or reject attitudes typically associated with older generations, particularly Baby Boomers.

Use Case

OK Boomer became a viral catchphrase used to push back against older generations who are seen as out of touch or overly critical of younger people's ideas and lifestyles. It's often used humorously but can also be dismissive.

Examples

  • He said we don't work hard enough. OK Boomer.
  • Your opinion on social media? OK Boomer.
  • She doesn't understand TikTok, OK Boomer.
  • My parents don't get my music, OK Boomer.
  • They keep talking about the 'good old days,' OK Boomer.

How to Approach

OK Boomer can open up a conversation about generational differences and respect. Discuss why teens feel the need to use this phrase and how misunderstandings between generations can be addressed with empathy.

Questions to Ask

  • What does 'OK Boomer' mean to you, and why do you think people say it?
  • Do you think older generations are really out of touch with young people's experiences?
  • How do you deal with adults when they don't understand your point of view?
  • What's a better way to bridge the gap between generations?
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NSFW (Not Safe For Work)

/#nsfw-not-safe-for-work

A term used to describe content (images, videos, or links) that is inappropriate for viewing in professional settings, typically because it's explicit or offensive.

Use Case

NSFW is often used as a warning label for content that includes nudity, violence, or other mature material. It's a signal for viewers to avoid opening it in public or professional environments.

Examples

  • Don't open that'it's totally NSFW.
  • I got sent an NSFW meme, and it was awkward.
  • He accidentally opened an NSFW video in class.
  • She posted an NSFW pic, and everyone's talking about it.
  • They use NSFW as a warning, but people still share it.

How to Approach

Discussing NSFW content is essential in today's digital age. Talk to your child about safe online behavior, the risks of explicit material, and how to navigate content responsibly.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you ever come across NSFW content online, and how did you handle it?
  • Why do you think people label content NSFW, and what's the importance of it?
  • How do you avoid seeing things you're not comfortable with on the internet?
  • What's your plan if you accidentally come across something inappropriate online?
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Noob/N00b

/#noob-n00b

A derogatory term used to describe someone who is inexperienced or new to something, often in gaming.

Use Case

Noob or "n00b" is commonly used in gaming culture to refer to a new player who isn't skilled yet. While it can be used playfully, it often has a negative or mocking tone.

Examples

  • He's such a noob at this game.
  • Don't be a noob and use the wrong weapon!
  • I was a total noob when I started playing.
  • Stop playing like a noob.
  • She's learning fast, but still a bit of a noob.

How to Approach

Discussing "noob" can lead to conversations about learning new things, patience, and not judging others based on their skill level. It's a great way to talk about how everyone has to start somewhere.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you were a noob at but got better with practice?
  • How do you deal with being called a noob when trying something new?
  • Why do you think people judge others harshly for being inexperienced?
  • How can we encourage people who are noobs to keep going?
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Molly

/#molly

Slang for MDMA, a party drug known for its euphoric effects.

Use Case

Molly is a common drug used in party settings, often associated with electronic music festivals or club scenes. It heightens sensory experiences but can be dangerous due to its side effects and potential for being cut with other harmful substances.

Examples

  • They were talking about taking molly at the concert.
  • Molly can be dangerous if you don't know what you're taking.
  • I heard people were on molly at that rave.
  • Molly is popular at festivals, but it's risky.
  • She tried molly once and had a bad experience.

How to Approach

Discussing "molly" allows for important conversations about drug use, peer pressure, and safety. Be open with your child about the risks and encourage them to make informed decisions about avoiding harmful substances.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you heard people talk about molly at parties or concerts?
  • What do you think about the risks associated with molly and other drugs?
  • How do you handle situations where people are using drugs around you?
  • What's your plan for avoiding risky behaviors in party settings?
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Motion

/#motion

"Motion" is a term used to describe plans, events, or activities that are in progress or in motion, often referring to social plans or someone actively making moves to achieve something. It can also mean being busy, productive, or involved in something exciting.

Use Case

Motion is commonly used when someone has a lot going on, whether it's social activities, work, or making moves toward a goal. It can be about planning a night out, working toward success, or just staying active.

Examples

  • What's the motion for tonight?
  • We got some motion'everyone's going out later.
  • He's always got some motion, never stays still.
  • I'm making big moves, keeping the motion going.
  • They have no motion'they have nothing going for themselves.

How to Approach

Talking about "motion" can help you explore how your child stays engaged in social life or works toward their goals. Ask them about their plans, the moves they're making, and how they handle being busy or productive. This term can also open up discussions about balancing social life and responsibilities.

Questions to Ask

  • What's the motion for this weekend'any plans?
  • How do you stay in motion with all your activities without getting overwhelmed?
  • What's something that's been in motion for you, and how's it going?
  • Do you ever feel pressure to keep the motion going, even when you need a break?
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Mid

/#mid

Used to describe something that is average or mediocre, not particularly good or bad.

Use Case

Mid became popular through internet culture as a way to dismiss something as underwhelming or unremarkable. It's often used to critique music, movies, or experiences that fail to impress.

Examples

  • That movie was so mid.
  • The party last night? Totally mid.
  • He's hyping up a mid song.
  • I thought the new album was mid.
  • Her cooking is kind of mid, honestly.

How to Approach

Mid can be a starting point to talk about standards and personal tastes, whether in media, social experiences, or even relationships. It's a way to gauge what your child values in entertainment and social interactions.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you've found to be mid recently?
  • Why do you think some things that are hyped up turn out to be mid?
  • How do you balance being critical with enjoying things for what they are?
  • What's something that you feel exceeds the 'mid' standard for you?
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Mewing

/#mewing

A practice that involves pressing the tongue against the roof of the mouth, claimed to improve facial structure, particularly the jawline, over time.

Use Case

Mewing became popular on platforms like YouTube and TikTok, where influencers advocate it as a way to enhance your facial aesthetics. It's a form of non-invasive "looksmaxxing," aimed at reshaping the face.

Examples

  • I've been mewing for months to get a better jawline.
  • Everyone on TikTok is talking about mewing to look better.
  • Mewing is supposed to help define your face.
  • Is mewing legit, or is it just a trend?
  • I started mewing after seeing those before and after pics.

How to Approach

Talking about "mewing" offers a good entry into discussions about body image, beauty trends, and self-esteem. Encourage your child to focus on health and self-acceptance over conforming to social media-driven beauty standards.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you heard of mewing? What do you think about it?
  • Why do you think so many people focus on changing their appearance?
  • How do you feel about the pressure to look a certain way because of social media?
  • Do you think there's more value in feeling confident about your natural appearance?
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Low Key

/#low-key

Used to describe something done or felt subtly, without drawing much attention. The opposite of "high key."

Use Case

Low key is often used to describe emotions, opinions, or actions that someone isn't making a big deal about, but still feels or does. It's about keeping things understated or on the down-low.

Examples

  • I'm low key excited for the weekend.
  • I low key think she likes him.
  • That movie was low key scary.
  • I'm low key stressed about finals.
  • He's low key one of the smartest in the class.

How to Approach

This term opens up conversations about how your child balances their public and private feelings. Discuss when they feel it's best to be low key and how that plays into their interactions with others.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you're low key excited about?
  • Do you think being low key is sometimes better than being too open?
  • How do you decide when to be low key about something?
  • Is there anything you feel low key about but wish you could express more?
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Meal

/#meal

A compliment that refers to someone who is extremely attractive, implying they look so good they could be "a full meal."

Use Case

Calling someone a "meal" is a step up from calling them a "snack" and implies that they are exceptionally attractive or desirable. It's a playful way of admiring someone's looks.

Examples

  • She's not just a snack, she's a whole meal!
  • He walked in looking like a full meal.
  • I'm dressed up like a meal tonight.
  • Everyone was calling her a meal at the party.
  • You're not just a snack'you're a meal!

How to Approach

This term can lead to conversations about body image, attractiveness, and how compliments can be given without objectifying someone. Encourage your child to think about compliments in a positive, respectful way.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think about people using terms like 'snack' or 'meal' to describe attractiveness?
  • Do you feel flattered when people use these terms, or do they make you uncomfortable?
  • How can we compliment others without making them feel objectified?
  • What's a better way to make someone feel good about themselves?
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Lock In

/#lock-in

To focus or commit intensely to something, whether it's a task, goal, or game.

Use Case

Lock in is often used in sports, gaming, or work environments, where complete focus is required to succeed. It implies putting all distractions aside to achieve a specific outcome.

Examples

  • We need to lock in before the game.
  • I'm locking in to study for finals.
  • He locked in and won the tournament.
  • It's time to lock in and finish this project.
  • Let's lock in and make sure we win this match.

How to Approach

Talking about "lock in" is a great way to explore how your child approaches concentration, discipline, and goals. Ask about what they feel passionate enough to "lock in" for and how they handle distractions.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you've locked in on recently?
  • How do you stay focused when you lock in?
  • What motivates you to lock in on something important?
  • How do you handle distractions when you're trying to lock in?
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Main Character

/#main-character

Refers to someone who feels like they are the central figure in a situation or event, often used to describe a person exuding confidence or who stands out in a memorable way. It suggests that they are living their life as if everything revolves around them, similar to how the story centers around the protagonist in a movie or book.

Use Case

The "main character" trend, popular on TikTok and other social media platforms, describes people who embrace a confident, self-assured attitude and carry themselves as though they are the protagonist of their own life's narrative. It's often used as a compliment, implying someone has a certain charisma or energy that makes them stand out.

Examples

  • I felt like the main character today.
  • She's totally the main character of her story.
  • He's got main character energy.
  • That outfit? Main character vibes.
  • You're the main character in that situation.

How to Approach

Use this phrase as a way to explore self-expression and confidence with your child. Discuss how the "main character" concept can be a fun way to boost self-esteem and celebrate individuality, but also how it's important not to take it too far, where it might lead to self-centeredness or a lack of empathy for others. Encourage your child to be the "main character" in their life, but in a way that includes valuing those around them.

Questions to Ask

  • What makes you feel like the 'main character' in your own life?
  • Do you think having 'main character energy' is about confidence or something else?
  • How do you balance being the 'main character' without making everything about you?
  • Who's someone in your life that you think has main character vibes, and why?
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Looksmaxxing

/#looksmaxxing

A term from online communities (like incel culture) where people focus on improving their physical appearance to the extreme, believing that looks are the key to success in relationships and life.

Use Case

Looksmaxxing often involves using extreme measures, such as plastic surgery, strict fitness routines, or excessive grooming, to achieve a perceived ideal of attractiveness. It can lead to unhealthy body image issues.

Examples

  • He's into looksmaxxing, always in the gym.
  • Looksmaxxing isn't healthy if you're obsessed with it.
  • She started looksmaxxing because she thinks it'll help her dating life.
  • People in online forums push looksmaxxing way too hard.
  • He's all about looksmaxxing but never talks about personality.

How to Approach

Discuss "looksmaxxing" in terms of healthy self-image, self-improvement, and the pressures teens face from social media. Make sure your child understands the importance of self-worth beyond appearance and the dangers of extreme measures.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think about looksmaxxing and the pressure to always look better?
  • How do you balance caring for your appearance with staying true to yourself?
  • Have you ever felt like looksmaxxing was pushed on you by social media or friends?
  • What's the best way to improve your confidence without focusing only on looks?
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LMIRL

/#lmirl

Stands for "Let's Meet In Real Life," used in online chat rooms or messages to suggest meeting up offline.

Use Case

LMIRL is a term commonly used by people who first connect online, whether through social media, games, or dating apps, and want to take their conversation to an in-person meeting.

Examples

  • He messaged me LMIRL after we talked for a while.
  • I'm nervous; she wants to LMIRL this weekend.
  • If someone says LMIRL too soon, I'm skeptical.
  • They've been chatting for months before agreeing to LMIRL.
  • Be careful when agreeing to LMIRL with strangers.

How to Approach

Talk to your child about the potential risks of meeting people from online in person. Emphasize the importance of ensuring their safety and being cautious when transitioning from online to offline relationships.

Questions to Ask

  • How do you feel about meeting people from online in real life?
  • What steps do you take to make sure you're safe if you decide to meet someone?
  • Do you ever feel pressured to LMIRL too quickly?
  • What's your strategy for handling conversations about meeting offline?
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Lit/Turnt/Turnt Up

/#lit-turnt-turnt-up

Terms used to describe being excited, having fun, or getting drunk or high. "Lit" is often synonymous with having a great time, while "turnt" implies an increase in energy or intoxication.

Use Case

Lit and "turnt" are popular among teens to describe parties or events that are full of energy. It's often associated with drinking or using substances, but it can also simply refer to having a great time in general.

Examples

  • That party was lit!
  • We're getting turnt up tonight!
  • Last night was so turnt, everyone was dancing.
  • She's turnt after two drinks.
  • The concert was lit, best night ever.

How to Approach

Discuss these terms as a way to talk about partying, drinking, and drug use. It's important to emphasize the difference between having fun responsibly and engaging in risky behaviors. Open up a dialogue about peer pressure and staying safe.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think it means for something to be lit or turnt?
  • How do you and your friends decide when something is getting too turnt?
  • Have you ever felt pressure to turnt up in a way that made you uncomfortable?
  • What do you think is the best way to have fun without losing control?
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Let Them Cook

/#let-them-cook

A phrase that means to allow someone to continue what they're doing, implying they're in the process of something impressive or worth watching.

Use Case

Let them cook is often used to encourage or support someone who seems to be building up to something significant, whether in a conversation, project, or performance.

Examples

  • He's got something big planned'let him cook!
  • She's about to win this game, let her cook.
  • Everyone doubted him, but let him cook and see what happens.
  • I know it doesn't make sense now, but let them cook!
  • He's working on something cool'just let him cook.

How to Approach

Let them cook is a positive expression of trust in someone's ability to succeed. You can talk with your child about the importance of patience and giving others room to prove themselves or develop their ideas.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you ever felt like someone was telling you to 'let them cook' because they knew you'd succeed?
  • How do you handle situations where you want to prove yourself, but people don't give you time?
  • When's the last time you saw someone in action and just had to let them cook?
  • Do you think giving people space to cook can help them perform better?
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Left No Crumbs

/#left-no-crumbs

A phrase used to describe someone who did something flawlessly, impressively, or perfectly. It means they did such a good job that nothing was left to improve upon.

Use Case

Left no crumbs is a compliment, often used when someone excels at something, such as an outfit, performance, or project. It suggests that they did so well that there's nothing left to critique.

Examples

  • She left no crumbs with that dance routine.
  • He totally left no crumbs on that presentation.
  • That TikTok? She left no crumbs.
  • Her outfit left no crumbs.
  • He performed that song and left no crumbs.

How to Approach

This phrase can lead to a discussion about how your child approaches challenges and strives for excellence. Ask them what moments in their life felt like they "left no crumbs" and how it felt to accomplish something perfectly.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you ever felt like you 'left no crumbs' on something you worked hard on?
  • What does it mean to you to leave no crumbs?
  • How do you feel when someone leaves no crumbs, and you're inspired by it?
  • What's something in your life you want to leave no crumbs on?
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Lagging

/#lagging

A term used to describe someone who is falling behind, either in tasks, responsibilities, or socially. It's often used to point out when someone is moving slowly, not keeping up, or procrastinating. It can refer to academic work, social activities, or even mental energy.

Use Case

Lagging is commonly used when someone is not staying on top of things or is procrastinating. It can apply to schoolwork, group activities, or even maintaining social interactions.

Examples

  • I'm totally lagging on my homework this week.
  • You're lagging, hurry up!
  • I've been lagging all day'I need to get focused.
  • She's lagging behind on our group project.
  • If you keep lagging, you're going to miss out.

How to Approach

Lagging opens up a conversation about time management and procrastination. Ask your child how they handle falling behind, and discuss strategies for staying on track. It's also a good opportunity to explore what causes them to lag'whether it's distractions, lack of motivation, or feeling overwhelmed'and how you can support them in getting back on track.

Questions to Ask

  • What makes you feel like you're lagging sometimes, and how do you get back on track?
  • How do you handle it when you're lagging on assignments or tasks?
  • Do you ever feel pressure when you're lagging behind, and how do you deal with it?
  • What helps you stay focused so you don't feel like you're lagging in your work or social life?
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KYS

/#kys

An acronym for "Kill Yourself," used both as an insult and, sometimes, in a joking manner. It's dangerous as it can contribute to a toxic environment and should be taken seriously.

Use Case

KYS is often thrown around casually in gaming or online arguments, but it's important to understand the serious impact such words can have. While some use it jokingly, others might use it maliciously in cyberbullying situations.

Examples

  • He lost the game and told me KYS, but I'm not mad.
  • I messed up, and now they're all saying KYS in the comments.
  • Someone told her to KYS after the argument.
  • People throw KYS around too easily these days.
  • She blocked him after he said KYS.

How to Approach

Address the term "KYS" immediately if you hear it. It's crucial to explain that these words can have damaging effects, even if said jokingly. Encourage your child to consider the emotional impact their words can have on others, especially online.

Questions to Ask

  • I've heard people use 'KYS' online. How do you feel when you see or hear that?
  • Why do you think people use extreme language like 'KYS' in games or arguments?
  • Do you think people understand the impact of saying 'KYS'?
  • What do you think is a better way to express frustration without hurting someone?
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KMS

/#kms

An abbreviation for "Kill Myself," often used in a hyperbolic, joking way to express frustration or stress, but it's a serious term that can also indicate someone is struggling with suicidal thoughts.

Use Case

KMS can be alarming because while it's often used casually online to express feeling overwhelmed or annoyed, it can also be a cry for help in some cases. Teens may use this phrase jokingly, but parents need to monitor it closely in case there's a deeper issue at play.

Examples

  • I have so much homework, I'm gonna KMS.
  • That test was so hard, KMS.
  • If I have to clean my room one more time, KMS.
  • He asked her out in front of everyone, I'd KMS if that were me.
  • KMS, I can't handle this stress.

How to Approach

It's essential to handle the term "KMS" with care and empathy. If your child uses this term, it's a good opportunity to check in on their mental health and offer support, ensuring they know they can talk to you about anything that's bothering them.

Questions to Ask

  • I've heard people use 'KMS' casually, but it's important to take stress seriously. How are you feeling?
  • Do you sometimes use terms like KMS when you're joking, or does it come from a place of real stress?
  • How do you handle things when you're feeling overwhelmed?
  • I want you to know I'm here if anything feels too much for you.
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Karen

/#karen

A pejorative term used to describe an entitled, demanding, or overbearing woman, often in a customer service or social context.

Use Case

Karen has become widely popular to describe someone, typically a middle-aged woman, who exhibits entitled or rude behavior, especially toward service workers or in public spaces.

Examples

  • That lady was such a Karen to the waiter.
  • She's always acting like a Karen when she doesn't get her way.
  • Don't be a Karen about it, chill.
  • I can't believe she pulled a Karen move at the store.
  • Someone called her a Karen, and she flipped out.

How to Approach

The use of "Karen" opens up discussions about respect, entitlement, and how your child views authority figures or difficult social situations. It's important to talk about how we treat others and avoid stereotypes.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think it means when someone is called a Karen?
  • How do you feel when you see someone acting entitled in public?
  • Do you think the term Karen is fair or overused?
  • What's a better way to handle situations than acting like a Karen?
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Juul

/#juul

A brand of e-cigarettes that became synonymous with vaping among teens.

Use Case

Juul is often used as a verb meaning to vape. Vaping has become a significant concern among teens, as it's seen as a less harmful alternative to smoking, but it still carries risks, especially with nicotine addiction.

Examples

  • Everyone at the party was Juuling.
  • I can't believe he's still Juuling at school.
  • She quit Juuling after getting sick.
  • Juuling isn't as safe as people think.
  • They got caught Juuling in the bathroom.

How to Approach

Vaping and Juuling are critical topics for parents to address due to the health risks involved. Have an open discussion about the dangers of nicotine and peer pressure related to vaping.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think about Juuling? Is it common in your school?
  • Do you know anyone who Juuls? How do you feel about it?
  • What do you think are the risks involved with Juuling?
  • Have you ever felt pressure to try Juuling? How did you handle it?
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IYKYK

/#iykyk

Short for "If You Know, You Know," meaning that the person is referring to an inside joke or situation that only certain people will understand.

Use Case

IYKYK is often used to subtly reference something that only a particular group of people would understand, whether it's a meme, event, or shared experience. It's a way of building a sense of exclusivity around certain topics.

Examples

  • IYKYK about the party last night.
  • This meme is so funny, IYKYK.
  • That song hits different, IYKYK.
  • Wore this for a reason, IYKYK.
  • The pizza place is the best spot in town, IYKYK.

How to Approach

IYKYK can be a way to explore how your child connects with their friends through shared experiences or in-jokes. Ask them about what they find special or important enough to share within their circle.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something that you and your friends would say 'IYKYK' about?
  • Why do you think some experiences are only understood by certain people?
  • How does it feel to be part of an 'IYKYK' moment?
  • Is there a meme or trend that's 'IYKYK' for you and your friends?
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IYKWIM

/#iykwim

Stands for "If You Know What I Mean," often used to imply an inside joke, a hidden meaning, or something suggestive.

Use Case

IYKWIM adds a layer of subtlety to conversations, hinting at an underlying message that only those familiar with the context will understand.

Examples

  • We had a great time last night, iykwim.
  • This party is going to get wild, iykwim.
  • That teacher really pushes us hard, iykwim.
  • His new haircut looks... different, iykwim.
  • I'm planning something exciting for later, iykwim.

How to Approach

This term provides a great way to discuss how your child uses language to communicate implicitly and what they mean by subtle comments. It's an opportunity to explore how they balance openness and privacy in conversations.

Questions to Ask

  • When do you feel like using 'IYKWIM' in a conversation?
  • Do you think using subtle hints helps or complicates communication?
  • How do you know when someone gets what you're hinting at?
  • What's something you've shared recently that required an 'IYKWIM' moment?
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ISO

/#iso

Short for "In Search Of," often used on social media or in online communities when someone is looking for a particular item or piece of information.

Use Case

ISO is typically used in online communities like Facebook Marketplace or Reddit, where users post about what they are looking for, whether it's an item to purchase, recommendations, or advice.

Examples

  • ISO a new phone, anyone selling?
  • I'm ISO concert tickets, hit me up.
  • She posted ISO advice on study tips.
  • I'm ISO a good movie to watch.
  • Anyone ISO a used bike? I'm selling mine.

How to Approach

ISO can be a way to discuss how your child uses online platforms for networking, buying, or gathering information. It's important to ensure they understand the risks of buying or meeting strangers online, as well as how to navigate online communities safely.

Questions to Ask

  • What kinds of things do you look for when you post ISO online?
  • How do you make sure you're safe when buying or selling things online?
  • What's something you've found by posting ISO?
  • Do you think ISO posts are effective for getting what you want?
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It's Giving

/#its-giving

A phrase used to describe the vibe or energy someone or something is projecting, often in a positive or humorous way.

Use Case

It's giving is often followed by something like "queen," "boss," or "fashion" to indicate what the energy or style reminds someone of. It's frequently used to describe someone's overall vibe in a complimentary way.

Examples

  • It's giving boss vibes with that suit.
  • Her outfit is giving fairy-tale princess.
  • It's giving summer vacation with these plans!
  • This new music is giving 90s nostalgia.
  • That speech was giving major TED Talk energy.

How to Approach

It's giving can be a lighthearted way to discuss style, personality, and how someone expresses themselves. Encourage your child to embrace their own unique energy and not rely solely on others' opinions.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something that's 'giving' good energy to you lately?
  • How do you think someone's style or mood can give off a certain vibe?
  • What kind of energy do you like to project?
  • What do you think your 'it's giving' moment would be?
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Ick

/#ick

A term used to describe a sudden feeling of disgust or repulsion towards someone, often in a romantic context.

Use Case

Getting "the ick" refers to a minor behavior or trait that turns someone off from a romantic interest, sometimes over something trivial. It's used humorously but can signal the end of attraction.

Examples

  • He gave me the ick when he chewed with his mouth open.
  • I was into her, but now I have the ick.
  • He wore those shoes, and I got the ick.
  • Once you get the ick, it's hard to come back from it.
  • I don't know why, but she gave me the ick.

How to Approach

Talking about "the ick" provides an opportunity to discuss attraction and how small things can change perceptions of others. It can lead to conversations about healthy relationships and setting realistic expectations in dating.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you ever gotten the ick from someone?
  • What do you think causes the ick in relationships?
  • How do you handle it when someone gives you the ick?
  • Do you think the ick is something you can get over?
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Hits Different

/#hits-different

Used to describe something that affects someone in an emotional or profound way.

Use Case

Hits different is often used when something, such as a song, memory, or experience, impacts someone deeply in a way that's hard to explain. It's usually used in the context of a positive experience or a relatable feeling.

Examples

  • That song hits different at night.
  • Watching this movie hits different after what I've been through.
  • Hearing that news hit different this time.
  • Summer hits different when you're with friends.
  • Her voice hits different when you're feeling emotional.

How to Approach

This term can be a way to open up about emotional experiences and how different situations affect your child. Use this as an opportunity to talk about how they process their emotions and what makes certain moments feel more profound.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something that hits different for you?
  • Why do you think some things hit harder than others?
  • How do you handle it when something hits different emotionally?
  • What's a song or experience that always hits different for you?
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Hunty

/#hunty

A combination of "honey" and "c*nty," used in LGBTQ+ and drag communities as a term of endearment with sass and attitude.

Use Case

Hunty is often used in a playful or sassy context, particularly in the drag scene, to affectionately refer to someone while adding a bit of edge or attitude to the interaction.

Examples

  • You're killing that outfit, hunty!
  • What's the tea, hunty?
  • Don't come for me, hunty, unless you're ready.
  • Hunty, you better slay today!
  • She gave me the sassiest look, hunty.

How to Approach

Hunty provides a fun opportunity to discuss LGBTQ+ culture and how language is used within different communities to express identity and playfulness. It's also important to talk about using these terms respectfully.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you heard the term 'hunty,' and what do you think about it?
  • How do you feel when people use sassy terms like 'hunty' with their friends?
  • Do you think terms like 'hunty' help express personality or identity?
  • How can you make sure you're using fun terms without being disrespectful?
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Hop Off

/#hop-off

A phrase used to tell someone to stop bothering, criticizing, or focusing on you, similar to "get off my back."

Use Case

Hop off is often used when someone feels overwhelmed by another's attention or criticism and wants them to stop.

Examples

  • Hop off, I didn't ask for your opinion.
  • He wouldn't stop criticizing, so I told him to hop off.
  • Can you hop off for a second? I need some space.
  • She's always on my case'she needs to hop off.
  • I'm just trying to chill, so hop off.

How to Approach

This term provides a chance to talk about boundaries and respectful communication. Ask your child how they handle criticism or when they feel like someone is being too much, and help them navigate expressing boundaries without being hurtful.

Questions to Ask

  • When do you feel like telling people to 'hop off,' and how do you handle it?
  • What's the best way to set boundaries without hurting people's feelings?
  • How do you know when it's time to give someone space if they ask?
  • Why do you think people sometimes don't realize they're being too much?
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High Key

/#high-key

Refers to something that is openly or obviously true, the opposite of "low key."

Use Case

High key is used when someone wants to emphasize that they're being completely open about something. It's often used to describe opinions, feelings, or actions that they're not trying to hide.

Examples

  • I high key want to go to that concert.
  • She's high key my favorite artist.
  • High key, I've been waiting for this all year.
  • I'm high key obsessed with that show.
  • He high key loves her, but won't admit it.

How to Approach

Talking about "high key" can be a good opportunity to discuss the importance of being honest and open about feelings. Ask your child how they navigate between being "low key" and "high key" in their friendships and relationships.

Questions to Ask

  • What's something you're high key excited about?
  • Do you think it's better to be high key about your feelings or keep things low key?
  • How do you decide when to be open about something?
  • When's the last time you felt high key about something but kept it to yourself?
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Hentai

/#hentai

A genre of Japanese anime and manga that features sexually explicit content, often with exaggerated sexual themes and fantasies. "Hentai" translates to "pervert" or "perverted" in Japanese and has become synonymous with adult-themed anime and manga in Western cultures.

Use Case

Hentai is a term widely known in anime fan communities, though it specifically refers to content aimed at adult audiences. It can sometimes be discussed casually in online spaces or fandoms, but it also deals with mature, often explicit, subject matter.

Examples

  • I can't believe he watches hentai'it's so weird.
  • She said she found some hentai on his phone.
  • People joke about hentai, but it's pretty inappropriate.
  • There's way too much hentai content in that forum.
  • He tried to explain why he watches hentai, but it's not for me.

How to Approach

Talking about "hentai" is essential, as it opens up a dialogue about explicit online content, the dangers of exposure to pornography, and the boundaries of anime culture. Make sure your child understands the difference between fantasy and reality, and address how consuming explicit material can affect emotional well-being, relationships, and body image. It's also an opportunity to discuss internet safety and how they can make healthy choices about what content they engage with.

Questions to Ask

  • Have you ever heard people talk about hentai, and what do you think about it?
  • Why do you think some people are drawn to explicit anime, and how does it differ from regular content?
  • How do you decide what's appropriate for you to watch online, especially in anime communities?
  • What are some of the risks of watching explicit content like hentai, and how do you stay safe online?
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Heather

/#heather

Refers to someone who is conventionally attractive, popular, and well-liked, based on the 1989 film Heathers. It was popularized in recent years by Conan Gray's song "Heather," symbolizing the unattainable ideal of beauty.

Use Case

Heather is often used to describe someone who seems effortlessly perfect, making others feel envious or inferior.

Examples

  • She's such a Heather, everyone loves her.
  • I wish I could be like Heather, but I'm just not.
  • That girl's giving off total Heather vibes.
  • He only likes her because she's a Heather.
  • Don't worry, you don't need to be a Heather to be amazing.

How to Approach

This term can prompt conversations about self-esteem, comparisons, and the pressure to conform to beauty standards. Encourage your child to see value in themselves beyond appearance or popularity and to resist unhealthy comparisons to others.

Questions to Ask

  • Do you ever feel pressure to be like a 'Heather,' and how does that affect you?
  • What do you think makes someone a 'Heather,' and do you feel like it's realistic?
  • How can we focus on qualities that matter more than just looks or popularity?
  • Have you ever compared yourself to someone and felt bad because of it?
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Heard

/#heard

A slang term used to acknowledge that someone has been understood or their point has been taken. It's often used in a short, casual response to show that someone is paying attention and processing what was said.

Use Case

Heard is commonly used in place of phrases like "Got it" or "Understood." It's quick and simple, often used to confirm that a message or instruction has been received.

Examples

  • We're meeting at 5 p.m.? Heard.
  • You need me to grab snacks? Heard.
  • I can't hang out tonight? Heard, no worries.
  • They want us to submit it by Monday? Heard.
  • You don't like that restaurant? Heard, we can go somewhere else.

How to Approach

Heard is a good phrase for teaching active listening and acknowledging others' needs or concerns. You can talk to your child about the importance of clear communication and how acknowledging what someone says helps build better conversations and relationships.

Questions to Ask

  • When do you find yourself saying 'heard,' and why do you use it?
  • Do you think saying 'heard' helps you feel more connected in conversations?
  • How do you handle situations where you didn't fully hear or understand someone?
  • Why do you think it's important to let people know they've been 'heard'?
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GYAT

/#gyat

A shortened term for "Goddamn You Thick," often used to comment on someone's body shape in a suggestive manner.

Use Case

GYAT is typically used by teens, especially boys, in a sexualized way to comment on a woman's figure. It's often seen in online interactions, particularly in comment sections or direct messages, to express attraction to curvier body types.

Examples

  • GYAT, did you see her?
  • He was staring and said GYAT.
  • She posted a pic, and all the comments were GYAT.
  • That dress on her? GYAT.
  • He couldn't stop saying GYAT every time she walked by.

How to Approach

Discussing terms like GYAT opens the door to conversations about body objectification, respect, and how your child interprets and talks about physical attraction. It's crucial to emphasize the importance of respecting others and not reducing people to their physical appearance.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think when people use terms like GYAT?
  • How do you feel about how people comment on bodies online?
  • Do you think there's a better way to compliment someone?
  • Why do you think some people focus so much on physical appearance?
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Gucci

/#gucci

A slang term meaning "good" or "cool," derived from the luxury brand, Gucci.

Use Case

Gucci is used to express that something is going well or that someone feels good about a situation. It became popular due to the association with luxury and has since entered everyday slang as a way to describe something positive or impressive.

Examples

  • Everything's gucci with me.
  • That's gucci, no worries.
  • Feeling gucci after that workout.
  • Your outfit is gucci, I love it.
  • We're gucci now, all is forgiven.

How to Approach

Gucci can lead to a light conversation about how your child expresses positivity and contentment. It's a simple way to check in on how they're feeling and what's going well in their life.

Questions to Ask

  • What's gucci in your life right now?
  • Do you think saying things are 'gucci' makes you feel more positive?
  • When's the last time you felt everything was really gucci?
  • Do you think 'gucci' things in life come from hard work or luck?
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Groomer

/#groomer

Refers to someone who builds trust with a child or young person in order to exploit or manipulate them, often for sexual purposes. The term can also be misused in online spaces to falsely accuse people.

Use Case

Groomer is a serious accusation and typically refers to predatory behavior by adults toward minors. However, it's also been misused in some online circles to insult or shame others, especially in politically charged contexts.

Examples

  • Be careful; some people online act like friends but are really groomers.
  • He was exposed as a groomer after pretending to help young fans.
  • She told me to report anyone who gives off groomer vibes.
  • People use 'groomer' to describe anyone they don't like, but it's a serious accusation.
  • That influencer was accused of being a groomer, and it's all over social media.

How to Approach

This is a critical term to discuss with your child because it deals with online safety and the potential dangers of grooming. Make sure your child understands how to spot manipulative behavior online and when to seek help if they feel uncomfortable.

Questions to Ask

  • Do you know what grooming is, and how can you stay safe online?
  • Have you ever come across people online who seemed overly friendly or inappropriate?
  • What are some signs of grooming that you should be aware of?
  • How would you respond if you think someone is being groomed or acting suspiciously online?
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GOAT

/#goat

An acronym for "Greatest of All Time," used to describe someone who is considered the best at something, usually in sports, entertainment, or any field of competition.

Use Case

GOAT is used to describe someone who has achieved legendary status in their field. It's often applied to athletes, musicians, or celebrities who are viewed as the best of all time.

Examples

  • LeBron is the GOAT, no question.
  • Beyonc' is the GOAT when it comes to performing.
  • He's the GOAT at gaming, no one can beat him.
  • That was a GOAT-level performance.
  • Tom Brady is definitely the GOAT in football.

How to Approach

GOAT is a way to discuss excellence, achievement, and what it means to be the best. You can ask your child who they see as the GOAT in different areas of life, from sports to academics, and how they define greatness. This can lead to conversations about setting personal goals and pursuing passions.

Questions to Ask

  • Who do you think is the GOAT in your favorite sport or activity?
  • What does it mean to you to be the GOAT, and do you think it's always achievable?
  • How do you handle it when you feel like you're not living up to 'GOAT' expectations?
  • Who inspires you to aim for greatness in your life?
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Girl Dinner

/#girl-dinner

A term describing a meal that consists of snack-like, easy-to-prepare items rather than a full, traditional meal. It often includes things like cheese, crackers, or leftovers.

Use Case

Girl dinner is used humorously to describe the minimal effort some people, particularly women, put into their dinner. It refers to meals that aren't cooked or put together formally but consist of small, convenient snacks.

Examples

  • I'm just having a girl dinner tonight: cheese and crackers.
  • Leftover pizza and chips for dinner? Total girl dinner.
  • I don't feel like cooking, so it's a girl dinner for me.
  • Girl dinner tonight'just whatever I can find in the fridge.
  • We had girl dinner: popcorn and wine.

How to Approach

This fun term can lead to conversations about self-care, convenience, and how teens balance health with comfort. Ask about how they choose what to eat and if they prioritize nutrition or ease.

Questions to Ask

  • What's your go-to 'girl dinner' when you don't feel like cooking?
  • Do you think it's okay to have girl dinners sometimes, or is nutrition still important?
  • How do you decide when to make a real meal versus something easy?
  • What's a balance between enjoying snacks and eating well?
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Go Off

/#go-off

To encourage someone to keep doing what they're doing, often used to support someone's rant, complaint, or performance.

Use Case

Go off is used to cheer someone on, whether they're making a point, expressing anger, or showcasing talent. It's a way to show approval or agreement with someone's actions or words.

Examples

  • She's right about everything, go off!
  • He was really going off in that debate.
  • Go off! That performance was amazing!
  • You're totally right, go off!
  • She went off about the new policy at school.

How to Approach

Talking about "go off" gives you an opportunity to discuss when it's appropriate to express strong opinions or emotions and how your child uses their voice to make a point. Encourage them to express themselves but also think about their audience.

Questions to Ask

  • When do you feel like you want to 'go off' about something?
  • Do you think going off is always effective, or does it sometimes backfire?
  • How do you balance passion and calm when making a point?
  • What's something you've gone off about that you're proud of?
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Glow Up

/#glow-up

A significant improvement in someone's appearance, confidence, or overall life, usually after a period of personal development.

Use Case

Glow up is often used to describe a transformation, particularly when someone becomes more attractive, confident, or successful after going through changes in their life.

Examples

  • Her glow up since high school is insane.
  • I'm planning a summer glow up, focusing on fitness and self-care.
  • He had a major glow up after getting that new job.
  • My glow up includes a new hairstyle and wardrobe.
  • She's glowing up for her birthday next month.

How to Approach

Discussing "glow up" can lead to conversations about personal growth, self-improvement, and the pressures to look a certain way. Ask your child about their goals for self-improvement and what a glow up means to them beyond just appearance.

Questions to Ask

  • What's your idea of a glow up, and how do you achieve it?
  • Do you think glow ups are more about appearance or confidence?
  • How do you handle pressure from social media to have a perfect glow up?
  • What's one area of your life you'd like to glow up?
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Girl Math

/#girl-math

A humorous term used to explain how women justify certain purchases by breaking down the logic in a way that makes the expense seem less costly or more justifiable.

Use Case

Girl math is often used jokingly when someone explains how they rationalize their spending, making themselves feel better about splurging on something by using creative logic.

Examples

  • I bought the shoes because girl math says they're an investment.
  • Girl math: if I return something, it's like I never spent the money.
  • According to girl math, buying on sale means I saved money.
  • She used girl math to justify buying that expensive bag.
  • It's free if I use a gift card'girl math logic.

How to Approach

Girl math is a lighthearted way to discuss financial literacy and how your child thinks about spending and saving. You can also talk about the importance of budgeting and making smart financial decisions.

Questions to Ask

  • What's your favorite girl math trick when you're shopping?
  • Do you think using girl math helps or hurts your budget?
  • How do you balance splurging with saving for important things?
  • What's your best financial tip for making smart purchases?
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Ghosting

/#ghosting

The act of abruptly cutting off all communication with someone, often in romantic relationships, without explanation or warning.

Use Case

Ghosting is a common term in dating and friendships, where one person stops responding to messages or cuts off contact entirely, leaving the other person confused and without closure.

Examples

  • She ghosted me after we hung out last weekend.
  • I don't know why he ghosted, everything seemed fine.
  • I'm thinking about ghosting him because I don't know how to end things.
  • He ghosted her after texting for weeks.
  • Ghosting is so rude, just be honest!

How to Approach

This term provides an opportunity to talk about the importance of clear communication, especially in relationships. Ask your child how they feel about ghosting and how they handle situations where they don't want to continue a relationship or friendship.

Questions to Ask

  • What do you think about ghosting'have you experienced it?
  • How do you feel when someone ghosts instead of being upfront?
  • What's a better way to handle things if you're not interested in someone anymore?
  • Why do you think people ghost instead of having difficult conversations?
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